AprilBreezes asked this question on 5/6/2000:

I have a strange problem. I have an active libdo and I need sex often. The problem is my boyfriend wont let me go out with other guys for sex. That sounds normal so far right? Well, here is where the problem lays. After my boyfriend and I have sex, he gets very irrate, and calls me names like whore, slut, cheap c#nt, and that sort of things. He also tells me how Jesus is going to condem me to hell and Satan owns my soul. He dont think of these things before sex, but after, he get wierd!!! I have tried to break up with him, but he says he'll never break up with me. He will make sure that I never leave him! HELP! What can I do? He even thinks using dildos and other sex toys to please myself is enough to "beat me back to God" so to speak. If you have any ideas, I would be so thankful. April B.

TheAntiSpice gave this response on 5/7/2000:

I don't think that your boyfriend is well in the head and I believe that he is dangerous.

I have some questions about your situation: Do you live with him? Do you have family members or friends with whom you can stay with if you left him ? Do you call the police when he beats you ? Do you press charges? If not you need to.

You need to leave him , as soon as possible. It doesn't matter if he's normal until sex comes up. He may kill you one day , I'm not joking around. And you don't deserve his abuse , regardless of your libido , that's a separate problem that may be out of your control.

Please leave him. You deserve better.

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AprilBreezes rated this answer a 3.

i dont live with him. My family is 3000 miles away. I cant call the police, his dad is the chief of police.