huey_vivian asked this question on 4/13/2000:

okay he's my question i left my boyfiend for two weeks stright and then one day me and my friend was in the his car the friends car and he was crying and saying that he would never hit me angain then he left me but he did not want anybody elese he wanted just me in his life but i went back to him the third time around what should i do should i learn to trust him and think things will be okay this time or what?????????????

Springeagle gave this response on 5/7/2000:

NO NO NO NO NO : An abuser will always re abuse if therapy has not been done. Do not trust at all, this person abusing you needs help and so do you. If he/she get that help then try again but not before. Abuse is a sickness and has to be delt with properly. Please stop the circle and tell your friend to get help. You may need some therapy as well as you have been abused by this person. You will re abuse if you do not get the proper help. I am living proof of my own words. Love,light and Peace be with you always, Springeagle http://pages.ivillage.com/misc/springeagle3/index.html

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