AprilBreezes asked this question on 5/6/2000:

I have a strange problem. I have an active libdo and I need sex often. The problem is my boyfriend wont let me go out with other guys for sex. That sounds normal so far right? Well, here is where the problem lays. After my boyfriend and I have sex, he gets very irrate, and calls me names like whore, slut, cheap c#nt, and that sort of things. He also tells me how Jesus is going to condem me to hell and Satan owns my soul. He dont think of these things before sex, but after, he get wierd!!! I have tried to break up with him, but he says he'll never break up with me. He will make sure that I never leave him! HELP! What can I do? He even thinks using dildos and other sex toys to please myself is enough to "beat me back to God" so to speak. If you have any ideas, I would be so thankful. April B.

Patti_Ja gave this response on 5/7/2000:

I really did want to make this answere private but did not have the skill to do that...sometimes...I forget that when I got educated and professional that I was supposed to have a rather steril past... yeah right...I lived on the streets at a point in my life and I did everything female junkies do to get what they need...and you know what I came from a white middle class family from suburbia...they were not typical...but it was not the life that I was brought up to live...I have been married three different times and I have lived a hell of a life...(see my profile) and one of the things that I am surer than sure about is that the most primary means of control is sex...run...run fast...get away coz no matter how long you stay it will hurt worse...believe me...or stay and take your chances but you are in grave danger...probably more grave than you are aware of

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