AprilBreezes asked this question on 5/6/2000:

I have a strange problem. I have an active libdo and I need sex often. The problem is my boyfriend wont let me go out with other guys for sex. That sounds normal so far right? Well, here is where the problem lays. After my boyfriend and I have sex, he gets very irrate, and calls me names like whore, slut, cheap c#nt, and that sort of things. He also tells me how Jesus is going to condem me to hell and Satan owns my soul. He dont think of these things before sex, but after, he get wierd!!! I have tried to break up with him, but he says he'll never break up with me. He will make sure that I never leave him! HELP! What can I do? He even thinks using dildos and other sex toys to please myself is enough to "beat me back to God" so to speak. If you have any ideas, I would be so thankful. April B.

tcsmpsi gave this response on 5/7/2000:

Good Morning April

The first and foremost 'idea' that I can give you is to immediately focus your energy on dissolving that relationship and getting yourself as far from this person as you reasonably can. You are talking about some serious sexual abuse activity, if I am reading you right. This is illegal, therefore law enforcement can be brought in. It is also plenty background to contact an abuse shelter. I would suggest very strongly to first and immediately contact domestic violence and abuse shelter. They will have more explicit understanding of the facts in your particular area. They will be able to personally help you with understanding the particulars of that area.

Sincerely, tcsmpsi

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AprilBreezes rated this answer a 2.

Almost everyone of you suggested shelters. Have any of you ever tried to stay at a shelter? Most kick you out after a couple weeks because of over crowding. Tha conditions there are unbareable. I realise this relationship isnt healthy. I have no place to go, and his dad is the police chief of our town. You ever here of the good ole boys? That what I live with.