AprilBreezes asked this question on 5/6/2000:

I have a strange problem. I have an active libdo and I need sex often. The problem is my boyfriend wont let me go out with other guys for sex. That sounds normal so far right? Well, here is where the problem lays. After my boyfriend and I have sex, he gets very irrate, and calls me names like whore, slut, cheap c#nt, and that sort of things. He also tells me how Jesus is going to condem me to hell and Satan owns my soul. He dont think of these things before sex, but after, he get wierd!!! I have tried to break up with him, but he says he'll never break up with me. He will make sure that I never leave him! HELP! What can I do? He even thinks using dildos and other sex toys to please myself is enough to "beat me back to God" so to speak. If you have any ideas, I would be so thankful. April B.

niki6 gave this response on 5/7/2000:

this is abuse and wheather you or he wants to see it,it is and i think you should get away as fast and as far away as you can....my ex was like that...some what, you are having sexwith him and i think that he is sick and needs help....i hope he gets or you leave..i'd perfer both...there are shelters and stuff to help you get away from this man...sex is not a sin neither is using sex toys to please yourself...he wants the sex or he wouldn't do it...i think it's a control thing...please ask me more if i can help...god bless

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