AprilBreezes asked this question on 5/6/2000:

I have a strange problem. I have an active libdo and I need sex often. The problem is my boyfriend wont let me go out with other guys for sex. That sounds normal so far right? Well, here is where the problem lays. After my boyfriend and I have sex, he gets very irrate, and calls me names like whore, slut, cheap c#nt, and that sort of things. He also tells me how Jesus is going to condem me to hell and Satan owns my soul. He dont think of these things before sex, but after, he get wierd!!! I have tried to break up with him, but he says he'll never break up with me. He will make sure that I never leave him! HELP! What can I do? He even thinks using dildos and other sex toys to please myself is enough to "beat me back to God" so to speak. If you have any ideas, I would be so thankful. April B.

AskNeisha gave this response on 5/6/2000:

April, I could go into a very long story about how this person is disturbed and gently guide you to considering a little break away from him. However, that wouldn't be doing right by you. Now, it does not matter why your boyfriend calls you these names, it just doesn't. It doesn't matter if he had a bad childhood or he was always picked on or was smaller than the other kids...it doesn't matter. It's his problem now. And, April, it's a big one. If you stay with him even one more day, you are putting yourself in danger. These outbursts that he has will NOT decrease. They will only INCREASE. So, it's just a matter of time and the snow ball effect will make the choice for you if you don't do something now. He does not love you (maybe in his own way) and he is not good for you whatsoever. You need to make a clean break and you need to have the police there with you when you move. Do it.

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