AprilBreezes asked this question on 5/6/2000:

I have a strange problem. I have an active libdo and I need sex often. The problem is my boyfriend wont let me go out with other guys for sex. That sounds normal so far right? Well, here is where the problem lays. After my boyfriend and I have sex, he gets very irrate, and calls me names like whore, slut, cheap c#nt, and that sort of things. He also tells me how Jesus is going to condem me to hell and Satan owns my soul. He dont think of these things before sex, but after, he get wierd!!! I have tried to break up with him, but he says he'll never break up with me. He will make sure that I never leave him! HELP! What can I do? He even thinks using dildos and other sex toys to please myself is enough to "beat me back to God" so to speak. If you have any ideas, I would be so thankful. April B.

Ive_been_there gave this response on 5/6/2000:

Dear April, First off lets get to the route of the problem, he is unable to satify you totally. The calling of names is a way for him to boost he's insucuritys of not being able to totally satifiy you while having sex's. Call a friend, your family, any one that will let you stay with them until you get on your feet. There are women centers in every town that will help you. Move out as soon as possable. After leaving him, do not let him back in, take all legal measures that you need to. Change job's, move out of town. If he really beleives he is so holy then thou, why is it that you are boy friend and girl friend not husband and wife. As for you active libdo, if the toys work, use them. Going out and finding any one to satify your libdo, could cost you more then it is worth for one night of gratification. Remember STD, can kill you. You will find the right man that can feel every part of your life, not just the pyshical.

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