AprilBreezes asked this question on 5/6/2000:

I have a strange problem. I have an active libdo and I need sex often. The problem is my boyfriend wont let me go out with other guys for sex. That sounds normal so far right? Well, here is where the problem lays. After my boyfriend and I have sex, he gets very irrate, and calls me names like whore, slut, cheap c#nt, and that sort of things. He also tells me how Jesus is going to condem me to hell and Satan owns my soul. He dont think of these things before sex, but after, he get wierd!!! I have tried to break up with him, but he says he'll never break up with me. He will make sure that I never leave him! HELP! What can I do? He even thinks using dildos and other sex toys to please myself is enough to "beat me back to God" so to speak. If you have any ideas, I would be so thankful. April B.

ROSETTA900 gave this response on 5/6/2000:

DEAR APRIL,

WELL YOUR QUESTION SURELY IS A COMPLICATED ONE. FIRST I HAVE TO ASK YOU A QUESTION. DO YOU FEEL THAT IT IS NORMAL TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH ONE PERSON YET GO OUT AND HAVE SEX WITH OTHERS TO PLEASE YOUR "LIBIDO" I UNDERSTAND THAT YOU SAID IT IS AN ACTIVE "LIBIDO". NOW ON TO YOUR SO CALLED BOYFRIEND. FIRST OF ALL HE IS CONTROLLING YOU , HE IS TELLING YOU WHAT AND WHO YOU CAN SEE, WHAT THINGS YOU CAN USE, HOW YOU ARE BEING A SINNER. HE IS ABUSING YOU IN JUST ABOUT EVERY WAY IMAGINABLE AND USING THREATS THAT YOU CAN NOT LEAVE THAT YOU ARE HIS. APRIL, MY SUGGESTION TO YOU IS TO PICK UP YOUR PHONE BOOK AND CALL A DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AGENCY LOCATED NEAR YOU AND FIND OUT WHAT YOUR OPRIONS ARE. REMAINING WITH A MAN SUCH AS THIS ANIMAL IS BAD!!! BAD ! BAD! AND FROM WHAT YOU SAY HE IS ONLY GETTING WORSE AS TIME GOES ON! HOPE THIS HELPS!

ROSE

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