Sagirl2005 asked this question on 4/27/2000:

I was absused by my ex boyfriend. He would hit,punch,kick me and throw me down stairs. He would tell me things like I dont have anyone but him,and that without him Im no one. For a while I believed this, but I realized that I didnt need him or his abuse. I was also raped by an ex. I was 16 he was 26. I said no,but he pressed harder against me forcing me to cry and rither in pain.I broke up with him two weeks later. We stopped talking for a while,then we hung out one day. It happened again. I'm am scared of being in a relationship,I scared of being touched,kissed,held,because when I think of that it reminds me of him. Can someone please help me?If so please e-mail me Sagirl2005@aol.com

Jane564 gave this response on 4/28/2000:

I know exactly how you are feeling. It takes a little while, but you will have closer and you will be able to get close to someone and not get hurt. I know that it's hard to believe right now, but believe me everything will work out for you. And I will e-mail you and that way we can talk more privatly. Things will get better and I'm here to help.

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