Sagirl2005 asked this question on 4/27/2000:

I was absused by my ex boyfriend. He would hit,punch,kick me and throw me down stairs. He would tell me things like I dont have anyone but him,and that without him Im no one. For a while I believed this, but I realized that I didnt need him or his abuse. I was also raped by an ex. I was 16 he was 26. I said no,but he pressed harder against me forcing me to cry and rither in pain.I broke up with him two weeks later. We stopped talking for a while,then we hung out one day. It happened again. I'm am scared of being in a relationship,I scared of being touched,kissed,held,because when I think of that it reminds me of him. Can someone please help me?If so please e-mail me Sagirl2005@aol.com

Karen_Mac gave this response on 4/28/2000:

I would first like to say that no one has the right to put there hands on you.....As for the man who raped you he belongs in jail. Did you consider having him arrested? I suggest that you start some kind of counseling. You need to realize you are someone special who deserves to be loved and cherised. And you will find that special person who will always be there and will "never" put his hands on you.Make this day the first day of your life!

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