Sagirl2005 asked this question on 4/27/2000:

I was absused by my ex boyfriend. He would hit,punch,kick me and throw me down stairs. He would tell me things like I dont have anyone but him,and that without him Im no one. For a while I believed this, but I realized that I didnt need him or his abuse. I was also raped by an ex. I was 16 he was 26. I said no,but he pressed harder against me forcing me to cry and rither in pain.I broke up with him two weeks later. We stopped talking for a while,then we hung out one day. It happened again. I'm am scared of being in a relationship,I scared of being touched,kissed,held,because when I think of that it reminds me of him. Can someone please help me?If so please e-mail me Sagirl2005@aol.com

DoveWingsT gave this response on 4/27/2000:

Dear Sagril!

Way to go first of all for standing up to the fact that you do not deserve to be abused. You took the nessesary steps to this. Now you have to realize that you are worthy of being loved by someoen that is worth your love.

Abuse can take a toll on you emotionally. I suggest that you search for a support group that can help you deal with the pain. Youcan do this online of off line. If you need resources to help in your area please see our home page and there will be a link for that.

http://expage.com/page/wheretocallforhelp

DoveWingsT@aol.com

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