Sagirl2005 asked this question on 4/27/2000:

I was absused by my ex boyfriend. He would hit,punch,kick me and throw me down stairs. He would tell me things like I dont have anyone but him,and that without him Im no one. For a while I believed this, but I realized that I didnt need him or his abuse. I was also raped by an ex. I was 16 he was 26. I said no,but he pressed harder against me forcing me to cry and rither in pain.I broke up with him two weeks later. We stopped talking for a while,then we hung out one day. It happened again. I'm am scared of being in a relationship,I scared of being touched,kissed,held,because when I think of that it reminds me of him. Can someone please help me?If so please e-mail me Sagirl2005@aol.com

ezcutt gave this response on 4/27/2000:

well girl, i can't know how you feel because i'm not in your situation, but i can try. you probaly are scared to get with anybody beasue of the past thoughs come up and that scares you. try this, next time that you like a guy, take things really slow and try to get to know him real good before you develop a relationship. that way you can start feeling comfortable with someone and might can ease your mind with trusting men again. good luck.

ez

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