huey_vivian asked this question on 4/13/2000:

okay he's my question i left my boyfiend for two weeks stright and then one day me and my friend was in the his car the friends car and he was crying and saying that he would never hit me angain then he left me but he did not want anybody elese he wanted just me in his life but i went back to him the third time around what should i do should i learn to trust him and think things will be okay this time or what?????????????

zenobra1 gave this response on 4/25/2000:

This is your third time around with this guy and your asking us about him, you sould know him by now and if you just admit the truth of the matter you know in your heart he is not going to change. The only way he will change is when and if he ever wants to change, and that just may not happen. Remember "three times a charm". Well that does not always mean a lucky charm, you are playing a dangerous game with your life and emotions to try and change him unless he wants to change. Also another sign of a bid relationship is when you have to ask yourself if you trust someone or not, that is something you sould not have to ask about you should know, not only in your mind but also in your heart. good luck

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