Anonymous asked this question on 4/19/2000:
Is it ever o.k. to have someone hit you? I know it is a stupid question but it's like I know certain things are going to piss my boyfriend off but sometimes I feel like I should be able to do whatever I want. I know that if I talk back or cuss at him that he might slap me in my mouth but sometimes I still do it.Does that make since? And the other stupid part is have the time I find myself saying sorry for him hitting me. I'm not stupid, actully I'm a straigt A college student. I even tell myself that I'm not going to do anything to piss him off but sometimes I still do. Don't tell me to get away from him, because I love him and I feel lonely without him but I just want him to treat me better. I want him to stop yelling at me, I don't like being scared of my boyfriend and I hate that almost everyone knows that he has hit me before. But I do not want to loss him. I don't think he would ever hurt me hurt me. Maybe scare me leave a couple of marks but not kill me. I know it sounds stupid but I really do believe it's true. They say you can't change those who don't want to be changed so what can I do to make it right?
zenobra1 gave this response on 4/25/2000:
Girl you do need to get a grip, do you really love this man more than you love yourself? Because that is exactly what you are saying. Is he really that much more important than you are? Believe you me there are alot of guys out there that do not hit. And by the way does he hit guy friends? or just his girlfriend? I know I sound really cold but the reality of it is you, sound really stupid. You need to read what you wrote and listen to the way you justify this man hitting you. Now unless you just really like it, you might want to start thinking about yourself and what you want, and from what you are saying you do not want to be hit. The only person that can change a situation is the person in the situation. You certainly arent thinking like a A college student, but rather like someone that doesn't place much value on themselves as a person. think about it!
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