huey_vivian asked this question on 4/13/2000:

okay he's my question i left my boyfiend for two weeks stright and then one day me and my friend was in the his car the friends car and he was crying and saying that he would never hit me angain then he left me but he did not want anybody elese he wanted just me in his life but i went back to him the third time around what should i do should i learn to trust him and think things will be okay this time or what?????????????

romeo2188 gave this response on 4/25/2000:

First of all you need some time to think and you can't do that why you are still with him. Go to counseling on your own and talk to some one. Give him the option of going with you to counseling and also give him the option to go as well. If he believes he has a problem with anger he will go, if he doesn't he won't. And it's sad but a fact that things will only get worse. You would not believe my story if I told it to you and one day I will but for now lay it on the line and as much as you love him, you have to find the strength to do this. You can do it,I'm routing for you. romeo2188

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