Anonymous asked this question on 4/19/2000:
Is it ever o.k. to have someone hit you? I know it is a stupid question but it's like I know certain things are going to piss my boyfriend off but sometimes I feel like I should be able to do whatever I want. I know that if I talk back or cuss at him that he might slap me in my mouth but sometimes I still do it.Does that make since? And the other stupid part is have the time I find myself saying sorry for him hitting me. I'm not stupid, actully I'm a straigt A college student. I even tell myself that I'm not going to do anything to piss him off but sometimes I still do. Don't tell me to get away from him, because I love him and I feel lonely without him but I just want him to treat me better. I want him to stop yelling at me, I don't like being scared of my boyfriend and I hate that almost everyone knows that he has hit me before. But I do not want to loss him. I don't think he would ever hurt me hurt me. Maybe scare me leave a couple of marks but not kill me. I know it sounds stupid but I really do believe it's true. They say you can't change those who don't want to be changed so what can I do to make it right?
sunny18603 gave this response on 4/21/2000:
Oh my gosh honey dajivue, i'm sorry don't tell you to leave him, this is my question meant for me,please listen to your self abuse horrid and it will never stop, you really need serious advice this advice is not to anger you or confuse you more but your confused, very first of all under no circumstances should there be physical,or mental abuse and to the point where you or condoming it, it is serious stuff and you have a serious problem abuse leads to death!!! it will never change why because first of all you have NOfreedom of speech,power,or thoughts,of your own lifeor actions who the h--- does he think he is and then you punshished in a physical way , becauseyou can't be you, that's serious he ain't gonna change he don't want to.so it's like this girlfriend you are in a DEAD END RELATIONSHIPso you are doomed, please listen been there from the very start of my life i won't go into it read my sunny18603 page on askme .commy advice is some of the best i have no degree in nothing but my love,and knowledge,i 've got very high rates, see where my life is going i have a gift and it's sttrong enough to sell my dream of 12 years what?my true life story please trust my advice honey this is serious for me it's my life in some what alllll ooooover again , in the relationship department. my advice to you is you don't want to except the truth that's why you don't want to leave him so i'm not gonna say that, test him i got the perfect game call my bluff to prove what i want to say is truth but i won't say it because you asking not to but i'm so strong on this , i would like for you to sample try may little game.if i'm wrong that's why i never leave him to you .but i feel so strong i want you to ask me how i can prove you are in a very abusive relationship, if your curious just askme sunny18603 and explain the game, but you want the best answer,then call my bluff honey i want to help you and i can
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