Anonymous asked this question on 4/20/2000:

My ex-husband refuses to let me get on with my life. He was emotionally abusive while we were married but became physically abusive after I left. He has seen Dr's and been an out patient a couple of times since we seperated but he still can not accept the fact that I left. He has threatened suicide a couple of times and has stalked, beaten, raped and taped me over the last year. I want his family to get involved and try to help him because I believe that he feels like no one loves him and by his family not getting involved it is just making him more desperate to try to keep me. He wants to be loved more than anything else I think that is why he won't let go. He thinks everyone he ever loved has left him so he thinks he can stop me. Do you know of any programs or ca you suggest what needs done?

blue_eyes_33 gave this response on 4/21/2000:

It looks to me like you feel guilty for his NEEDING love. He should have thought about that while you were married. I am answering this question because you said that he has stalked and raped you to name two of the things that you mentioned. YOU NEED TO GET A PROTECTIVE ORDER. He is your ex - husband and as such he should get on with his life. I had an ex husband like that but through the courts I have not seen him since 1993!! Wherever I went there he was so I went down to the court filed charges on him and he got probabtion and was ordered for counseling. The last I heard he was beating up his girlfriend and molesting her duaghter and the state of california came and questioned me about it. For your safety I really want you to go get a protective order. Let me know if I can assist you in AANY way at all.

BLUE_EYES_33

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