Anonymous asked this question on 4/20/2000:

My ex-husband refuses to let me get on with my life. He was emotionally abusive while we were married but became physically abusive after I left. He has seen Dr's and been an out patient a couple of times since we seperated but he still can not accept the fact that I left. He has threatened suicide a couple of times and has stalked, beaten, raped and taped me over the last year. I want his family to get involved and try to help him because I believe that he feels like no one loves him and by his family not getting involved it is just making him more desperate to try to keep me. He wants to be loved more than anything else I think that is why he won't let go. He thinks everyone he ever loved has left him so he thinks he can stop me. Do you know of any programs or ca you suggest what needs done?

MARTIE gave this response on 4/20/2000:

Hi Sounds to me like you might be enableing him to let go.He see's how you are acting and upset and you are giving him a crutch to lean in your direction.You must let go before he will,I know I have been there.I have a website that I just put up with differents issues and info go check on some of the sources there..Martie

www.homestead.com/MARTIESPLACE/

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