Anonymous asked this question on 4/20/2000:

My ex-husband refuses to let me get on with my life. He was emotionally abusive while we were married but became physically abusive after I left. He has seen Dr's and been an out patient a couple of times since we seperated but he still can not accept the fact that I left. He has threatened suicide a couple of times and has stalked, beaten, raped and taped me over the last year. I want his family to get involved and try to help him because I believe that he feels like no one loves him and by his family not getting involved it is just making him more desperate to try to keep me. He wants to be loved more than anything else I think that is why he won't let go. He thinks everyone he ever loved has left him so he thinks he can stop me. Do you know of any programs or ca you suggest what needs done?

courtneysmom gave this response on 4/20/2000:

Dear anonymous:

Normally I don't answer a question when it has already been answered extremely well or I can't think of anything else to contribute. I want to also say that I am not answering you just to get a rating. In fact, please don't even bother yourself. I only wanted to add that I sincerely hope you heed the excellent advice of tcsmpsi and neesie. This is very serious business. Your ex needs professional help in which you can't possibly provide. I hope you both get the help you need. Take care and please be safe!

courtneysmom

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