Anonymous asked this question on 4/19/2000:
Is it ever o.k. to have someone hit you? I know it is a stupid question but it's like I know certain things are going to piss my boyfriend off but sometimes I feel like I should be able to do whatever I want. I know that if I talk back or cuss at him that he might slap me in my mouth but sometimes I still do it.Does that make since? And the other stupid part is have the time I find myself saying sorry for him hitting me. I'm not stupid, actully I'm a straigt A college student. I even tell myself that I'm not going to do anything to piss him off but sometimes I still do. Don't tell me to get away from him, because I love him and I feel lonely without him but I just want him to treat me better. I want him to stop yelling at me, I don't like being scared of my boyfriend and I hate that almost everyone knows that he has hit me before. But I do not want to loss him. I don't think he would ever hurt me hurt me. Maybe scare me leave a couple of marks but not kill me. I know it sounds stupid but I really do believe it's true. They say you can't change those who don't want to be changed so what can I do to make it right?
brenzx2 gave this response on 4/20/2000:
Please read this, I am not going to say anything you don't want to hear. It took me a long time to answer this, I know how much you love him, I've been there. I know how you feel about not wanting to hear "leave him" It's not that easy. I think you came here to get things out. It's a safe place to be, nobody knows you. You afraid of him you must feel like your walking on egg shells, trying not to piss him off. At least that is how I use to feel, it's not a good feeling. I wish you would come back and tell me one thing. Is there anyone close to you? If there is, have you told them what is going on? I am only asking so if you find you need to get away, you have someone to help you. You will be the only one to decided if this is the man you want to be with. I can only offer you support, and if you need to talk I will be here. Your in my prayers brenzx2
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