huey_vivian asked this question on 4/13/2000:

okay he's my question i left my boyfiend for two weeks stright and then one day me and my friend was in the his car the friends car and he was crying and saying that he would never hit me angain then he left me but he did not want anybody elese he wanted just me in his life but i went back to him the third time around what should i do should i learn to trust him and think things will be okay this time or what?????????????

ebonyqueen gave this response on 4/19/2000:

I am a late comer to your question. Since I was a victim myself, I know it is not as simple as get out and leave him alone. He probably will not leave you alone. I cannot tell you what you need, only you know the answer to that. Do you love yourself? That is what you have to do first, you have to love yourself more than anyone else. Do you have support? A friend you can talk to, your mother? If the answer to that question is no. Now you do! You can email me at anytime, you do not have to go throught this page if you don't want to. I am here to help, not for points or rewards. I know your pain and it is not easy to cope with alone. I suppose thats why I stayed so long. I felt I had no one to turn to or go to. I want to help yo find options.

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