huey_vivian asked this question on 4/13/2000:

okay he's my question i left my boyfiend for two weeks stright and then one day me and my friend was in the his car the friends car and he was crying and saying that he would never hit me angain then he left me but he did not want anybody elese he wanted just me in his life but i went back to him the third time around what should i do should i learn to trust him and think things will be okay this time or what?????????????

debra_dennis gave this response on 4/18/2000:

Vivian, Do you have any children? If you do get out fast.There are places you can go for help.I had to run with my daughter for 5 years before I really believed I could be safe at a haven or anywhere.The fact is if he hit you once he will hit you again,don't do lije I did and let it be to late.My (our)daughter,one day I went to the grocery store,she was 2,he decided she needed beating for potting her pants.She was badly hurt and when I walked in and started screaming for him to call 911 he almost killed me.My daughter anI lay in the kitchen floor unconcious.a NEIGHBOR CALLED THE POLICE.Don't let this happen to you,stop it now. For your life and your child if you have one or more.Have faith in yourself and God.

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