huey_vivian asked this question on 4/13/2000:

okay he's my question i left my boyfiend for two weeks stright and then one day me and my friend was in the his car the friends car and he was crying and saying that he would never hit me angain then he left me but he did not want anybody elese he wanted just me in his life but i went back to him the third time around what should i do should i learn to trust him and think things will be okay this time or what?????????????

scorpio13 gave this response on 4/16/2000:

huey vivian, if this man continue to hit on you then you should get out all the promises in the world isn't going to keep his hand off you, you are not his punching bag violence isn't the answer to any questions.if there is violence in your relationship then there isnt one.him telling you that you he loves you then thats a lie love dosent have to hurt. you can do better and find someone who wont hit on you. you deserve better and he deserve counceling.

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