Anonymous asked this question on 4/15/2000:

I thank you for responding to my question!!! But, I was asking for help from whoever had advice about my situation. I did not care if a woman or a man responded. It doesn't matter if my issues were related to men or not because it happened to me and also it was men but a woman who also abused me. Men can give valuable advice too. Thank you again for responding!!!!!!!!!!!

Fr_Chuck gave this response on 4/16/2000:

thank you, yes I know that men can give good advice on issues like this, but I have found that when I do a one on one couseling that deals with this type of issues, there is a male / female hostility to get over before we can even start on the real problems, so that is why I normally refer thise to a female couselor, to ease the tension

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