huey_vivian asked this question on 4/13/2000:

okay he's my question i left my boyfiend for two weeks stright and then one day me and my friend was in the his car the friends car and he was crying and saying that he would never hit me angain then he left me but he did not want anybody elese he wanted just me in his life but i went back to him the third time around what should i do should i learn to trust him and think things will be okay this time or what?????????????

larrybergen gave this response on 4/14/2000:

You don't need to learn to trust him he needs to learn how to earn your trust.Make him jump through the hoops,date other guys. See him eventually but with a sharp eye on how he reacts to things. Otherwise dump himand get a gentleman who will traet you with honor and respect.

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