Anonymous asked this question on 3/28/2000:

Lately my boyfriend and I have been getting along so-so it angers him that when he calls I am either not home or to far to hear the phone, he talls me that I better be here at a certain time because he hates waiting, and this is so weird because he is so sweet, but his emotional outbursts are a problem.

Sally69 gave this response on 3/29/2000:

Your boyfriend is very controlling Most abusive men feel that women are beneath them, and that we are there merely to please them. You are not his child, you're suppose to be his mate. I have to wonder how long you've been in this relationship. Obviously you don't think that this is appropriate behavior. If this is new behavior, maybe there is something going on with him that he hasn't filled you in on, if this is not new behavior, you need to find another boyfriend, cause it can only get worse, especially if he doesn't believe that he has a problem. Also take a good look at yourself. Do you think you deserve to be treated this way? Before we can truly love someone else we must first learn to love ourselves, flaws and all.