Anonymous asked this question on 3/28/2000:

Lately my boyfriend and I have been getting along so-so it angers him that when he calls I am either not home or to far to hear the phone, he talls me that I better be here at a certain time because he hates waiting, and this is so weird because he is so sweet, but his emotional outbursts are a problem.

trii gave this response on 3/29/2000:

It sounds to me as if he either has a problem with control issues or he doesn't trust you. I think you need to sit down and talk about this before it gets out of control. I would also suggest that you get some kind of couples counseling to deal with this. Before you can solve the problem, you have to find out the cause of the problem. You are an individual and shouldn't have to account for 100% of your time to anyone. If you have given him rerason not to trust you, you will need help to re-establish that trust.

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