Anonymous asked this question on 3/28/2000:

Lately my boyfriend and I have been getting along so-so it angers him that when he calls I am either not home or to far to hear the phone, he talls me that I better be here at a certain time because he hates waiting, and this is so weird because he is so sweet, but his emotional outbursts are a problem.

Cntrygrl gave this response on 3/29/2000:

Your boyfriend's emotional outbursts are a sign of anger. This should make you aware that something is "not right". You may say it's almost like Dr. Jeckel/Mr. Hyde. You may want to give some thought about your relationship with him. In most cases, but not all, these outbursts can lead to something much more dangerous, such as domestic violence. He is attempting to control you. Abuse is about power and control of the other person, and by what you've written here, that's exactly what it sounds like. No one deserves to be treated that way! I would suggest to you to give serious thought as to where you may be heading with him. You've got the chance now to do that...you two are just dating. He is trying to control you and what you do, just by his reactions to when he calls you and you may not be there. My utmost suggestion would be to seriously think about your relationship with him, and be sure about it. I hope this helps a bit. Please let me know if I can be of any further help. Good Luck!!