Anonymous asked this question on 3/28/2000:

Lately my boyfriend and I have been getting along so-so it angers him that when he calls I am either not home or to far to hear the phone, he talls me that I better be here at a certain time because he hates waiting, and this is so weird because he is so sweet, but his emotional outbursts are a problem.

yourfriend gave this response on 3/29/2000:

As you can tell from all the other answers it is near impossible to always be by a phone. Also as you may have also found out that this is an intimidation scare, and he is telling you to do something or else. Be very careful as I bet without out you really knowing such that he has already in other ways of your relationship has told you what he wants and expects. Abuse is more then just physical.Mental abuse also leaves many scars.And his emotional outburst can leave you feeling as if you did something wrong.Good relationships are not about out bursts and name calling. Nor are they about ordering the one you love to do something that takes away from them.You did not say much more, but ask your self this, does he hit or throw things, walls,etc. And does he during his out burst ever make you feel worthless? Does he leave you feeling scared as if you did not know what his next step is during these out bursts. If so this is not healthy for you. Be careful and remember to be your own bestfriend and follow your intuitions on this.

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