Anonymous asked this question on 3/28/2000:

Lately my boyfriend and I have been getting along so-so it angers him that when he calls I am either not home or to far to hear the phone, he talls me that I better be here at a certain time because he hates waiting, and this is so weird because he is so sweet, but his emotional outbursts are a problem.

Liveagain gave this response on 3/28/2000:

What you're dealing with here is a abusive man waiting to let loose. He is already showing signs of needing complete control by being so impatient concerning the time and the telephone. It's the words that he used. He can hide his anger as long as he has control. But when you're not there to answer the telephone then he senses he has lost his control. In my humble opinion, you need to run from this situation as fast as you can. This man could hurt you physically as well as mentally or both. It would take you a long time to recover from a relationship with an abusive man. From your question, I'm sure you haven't ever dealth with a man like this before. Trust me, your dealing with fire and unless you want to get burned, you'll leave fast.:-) May God Bless.

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