Anonymous asked this question on 3/24/2000:

how can i get along with my parents without them physically abusing me? my step mom and my real dad hit me and i almost killed myself cuz of it. im only 16 what can i do?

lonely

NousGodess gave this response on 3/24/2000:

The first thing you can do is call the National Crisis line for teens, the number is 1-800-448-4663. If you feel you are in immediate danger of course, call the police. I would strongly encourage you to call the crisis line. Talking to someone about it can help. The person on the other end could help you to work out what you want to do. Don't think that they won't belive you when you tell them what is going on. Talking about your situation will help you to feel not so alone. Some other things you can do: Talk to an adult you trust, an older brother or sister, or another relative.

If the first person you talk to, doesn't seem to believe you, talk to someone else.

This is a difficult time for you. You are important. Just keep reminding yourself of that. Also, think about things that make you feel good or that you enjoy doing. When my daughter (who is 16) found a desperate time in her life, I gave her a journal and she wrote her feelings down. You might do the same thing. Another suggestion she has for you is to start listening to music that makes you feel good about yourself. Makes you feel like you could conquer anything. Trust your feelings and gut instincts

Be proud of yourself, and tell yourself that you don't deserve to be treated the way you are being treated. When they blame you, in your head, take control of your life and tell yourself they are wrong, it isn't your fault.

Have a code word or signal that you can use to get friends to help you.

If you go to school, you might want to go to a counselor. But, realize that once you accuse your parents of this, schools are usually obliged to call Child Protective Services and you will be taken out of the home, while an investigation goes on. So, don't cry wolf to get back at your parents. I know it probably doesn't sound fair that you would have to leave some of your things behind, but your safety is critical.

So, as you end reading this, I would strongly encourage you to call the hot line. They will be able to better direct you as to where to go in your state. There is most likely a safe house for you to go to, don't hesitate. No one should hit you, no matter how old you are. 1-800-448-4663 Peace, Love, and Joy

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Anonymous rated this answer a 5.

thanks and i think i will take ur advice. that means alot to me. i will call the hotline. thank you so much. ill try to keep in touch with you if you dont mind.