Anonymous asked this question on 3/18/2000:

i used to be physically abused now its emotional abuse .i want to kno how i can stop the emotional abuse and have a better relationship with him again.please help.how can i communicate more with him?

DeadlyDazzie gave this response on 3/23/2000:

please don't tell me you are saying with him. sometime i wish that my mom never meet my dad. I only hope you understand. My whole life i was abused. My dad and my grandmother. I only hope you get out of it now and you well only have a life of your own. Sometimes people have to be alone to live there lifes. If only people these days would think about something other then being with anybody the want to hit them and rape them Like i was at 5 to 8 then i would have a good life. i don't like looking in the mirror i don't like getting dressed up i put my self down. Alote more I just got to say this last thing. If you only fallow the one thing that you need to. Then you well be a happy person. you well always have love out there for you you might think that is love but love is right there in your heart. Just do one thing ask him if he loves you. Just see what he says and then you well know that he might be the one that you well spend the rest of your life with. Just remember that love is right there you just have to look and wait for it. Love well show its way. (sorry i can not spell that good.)

The average rating for this answer is 4.

Anonymous rated this answer a 4.

thats ok because i understand your message so spelling doesn't count.thanks.