Anonymous asked this question on 3/18/2000:

i used to be physically abused now its emotional abuse .i want to kno how i can stop the emotional abuse and have a better relationship with him again.please help.how can i communicate more with him?

babydollgoth gave this response on 3/22/2000:

I have been through this kind of relationships more than you can imagine. Let me ask you this, if he physically abuses, you then mentally abuses you, do you really want to be with this person? In my case, I was almost killed, I wound up in the hospital 6 times and almost died because the bruses were so bad, I once had to go to a hospital ward for 2 years. I loved this person so much, that I would do anything to make him love me more, but all it did was hurt me. Now that I have learned, I have someone wonderful. Someone who treats me well. You need to let someone know, he has no right to abuse you, it sounds like he has no self-respect, and definatly no respect toward you if he abuses you. Get out of the relationship. You said you want to talk to him, you can try but trust me that wont make him change. I have tried that. I know this from experience, please let someone know, prefably someone you trust.

I wish you all the best in the world. God Bless take care of you

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