Anonymous asked this question on 3/2/2000:

I am 14 and had sex with a 19 year old guy.He has no record so far but is being charged with statutory rape.My mom went to the cops and reported him because he took my virginity and she freaked out.We got a confession on tape of him.He was put in jail and was bailed out for 50,000 dollars by his family and cannot contact me.We are supposed to get married soon but the D.A. is prosecuting him. My mom is letting us get married and we informed the D.A.I was wondering how much time he will do in jail and any other informationyou can give me would be very helpful!

culpepper gave this response on 3/4/2000:

I'm afraid i don't know about the amount of jail time he will serve but stat rape is stat rape and it is there to protect people. Are you absolutely sure you want to marry him?? The age difference isn't that great I'll admit but you should be careful that he really wants to marry you. My experience in treating sex offenders shows me that for a guy to be interested in having sex with a young girl is not the 'normal' presentation i look for in a husband.

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