Dream_Weaver asked this question on 5/10/2000:

I was wondering if you and your partner shared the same book of Shadows?

I am a gay witch and My partner is a gay witch also and we use the same book of shadows and wanted to make sure it was the proper thing to do or if you think we should have our own.....

gabby2600 gave this response on 5/11/2000:

You can do that, but Idealy you should have one each. as you both might have slightly differing opinions on what you believe. This is what makes us different for the christians is we each write our own book of shaddow (bible) and this is what we believe. You can share if you beliefs are similar, but it is better to have your own inividual one.

We use Janet & Stuart Farrar The Witches Bible as a Base and work from that, and individualise things. As what I believe is different to my partner, however the basics are still in both of our belief's.

There is no rush to do one each though as it take time and research to write a book, and most BOS are writen over many years. and ammended and changed.

I hope this helps.

Gabriel

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Dream_Weaver rated this answer a 5.

thanks for your insight. I will suggest it to my partner and see what he feels as well again thanks