BWJ21 asked this question on 3/29/2000:

Hi, Arch, frist i wanna to tell you that i am a teens who beginning in the Witchcraft!! I read a lot book about it, but just seems i always have thing that i don't understand!! Like Moon sign, i don't know what kind of moon is New Moon, wut kind of moon is dark moon, or waned moon...... And i don't understand those planted, wut is it? and how do i choose or use it? And i am having a problem about finding the tools, like wand, harbs, oil, cord...... Could u teach me about them? And i am having love problem now, me and my bf been together about one year now, but, i still don't know deep in my heart am i love him or not, but everytime i told myself to break up with him, i just feel i can't do it, because i do care about him! Then about one month ago, my ex-bf asked me could we start ove again? (I really love him b4) So, i don't know how to choose, i don't know who is the one that i love, or love the most! And i frist love is in the army now, about one years ago, me and my frist bf start ove again, but because he's not live in the same stat with me, and becuz he's in the army we can't always talk to each other, can't see each other! So, we broken up again! But deep in my heart, i think i still love him, or at lest, still miss him!! Should do u know any spell that i can do to find out who i love? Who should i choose? Or who is the best for me? Thanks for you patient for read this mass!!

Arch gave this response on 4/1/2000:

Merry Meet, Welcome to the wonderful world of Wicca. First of all I think you need to calm down and take things slowly ( or as slowly as you need them). You don't need to be an expert on everything to do with Wicca (not that anyone ever is) as soon as you pick up that first book. If you take your time and continue to practise the Craft you will eventually get it! Now as for the Moon Phase problem, if you give me your e-mail I can send you a computer program which will tell you the Moon Phase of the location you are currently in! As for not being able to find the right equipment, it's really not such a bigger problem. Like I said before, take your time. You really don't need all of these things right now, and when the time comes to get them you will. Even if you did just happen to find all these things sitting on your door step tommorow morning it wouldn't do you much good as you wouldn't know how to use them. Learning the Craft takes time and practise. Take it one step at a time. As for me teaching you about them we're not exactly in the right position at the moment so it's best I don't. As for your you boy friend troubles, this is something you are going to have to look deep inside yourself for. Which one do you think is best for you? As you might not be able to come up with an answer with this right away I have a little spell for you. For this spell to work you must have complete faith in your gaurdian angel, you also have to continue looking inside yourself for the answer to. You must never just use magick and then get lazy!

Moon Phase: It really doesn't matter Day: Sunday, Moday, Wednesday or Friday Planets: Sun, Moon, Mercury and Venus Supplies:A stone half the size of your palm (any stone that really calls to you is fine. doesn't have to be expensive, it can even be from the backyard), white paint, red paint and a small paint brush.

Method:

1.Hold the stone you are going to paint in your hand and say: Element of Earth, bringer of stability. Lend me your power. Help me too see which person would be right for me. 2. Sit under the sun out side or in a sunny window and paint red adn white hearts over the stone, take you time, let the hearts dry as you tirn the stone to paint so you don't mess up your hands. While painting whisper the following: (the people's name), who is right for me? Gaurdian Angel, sun above, bring to me the one true love. Let all others fade away. I walk with Spirit everyday. 3. When you finish say: May this spell not reverse or place apon me any curse. May everything be correct! So Mote it Be!

Trust in yrou gaurdian angel and things will work out. You must believe though and you must never stop trying to decide for yourself who you think is right for you!

Hope this helped you some!

Merry Part and Blessed Be! Arch

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