danpam51 asked this question on 4/4/2000:

my Daughter-In-Law is living with a young boy, he's 18. He does drugs all of the time, he's an abusive type. Sunday, March the 2nd, my Daughter-In-Law brought the kids here to me because she said her boyfriend was threarening to kill them, if she didn't get them out of the house. My GrandBabies were scared, also. But she won't leave this boy, & she still continues to leave them there with him. I was wondering since he hasn't actually killed one of them yet, could I call the police, & they would go out there. I know my GrandBabies would talk to them, plus if they went with-out notifying them, there probably would be drugs there too. I am really worried about my Babies. I told their mom she needs to leave that boy, but she won't. Thank You, Pam

cruzmsl gave this response on 4/4/2000:

I would highly suggest you contact a police investigator and explain what you told me. From there he can contact the appropriate unit to make a proper arrest. If you call the police, then you might run into a "lazy cop" or worse, an abusive father himself. Regardless, it is obvious this 18 year old is too immature to take responsibility for these children, and it seems your daughter-in-law is too scared to take action, therefore, you need to take the appropriate action. Don't wait before ot is too late. ED

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