Anonymous asked this question on 4/29/2000:

I feel like I have been locked up forever. My feelings are just know started to come out. I'm not sure if what I am feeling is depression or if it is something else. My family has treated me bad for a long time. I haven't ever said anything because I didn't know how and now that I have told a couple people I feel said and lonely all the time like no one understands. I guess what I need is probably someone just to talk to and understand me. I don't think that someone who is 16 should feel this way. Maybe someone can help me. Bye

psychomania gave this response on 5/2/2000:

Dear anonymous you have been made the scapegoat of the family, you need to stand up to the rest of your family. You will find that just by giving your opinion you will be treated in a more respectful manner. Even if your input does not seem relevent to the topic being discussed at the time. On the odd occaision when your input has a positive outcome, your self esteem will multiply untill eventually you will become as assertive and as confident as the rest of the family. Do not expect results immediately but be persistant and calm and over time and with experience you will develop your own personal contribution to the family unit. Especially with your being aware of the situation at the age of sixteen. This is a very mature understanding of your own situation. Time will tell my friend, however I believe the family will eventually come round to your way of thinking. Keep on, YOU ARE RIGHT!