Anonymous asked this question on 7/12/2000:
Men:
May we have your opinion on the difference between making love, having sex and you know...
thank you
becca_shs01 gave this response on 7/12/2000:
I was just checking out what these guys had to say (hey, don't we all want to know?) and saw that Rhaven asked what women think about this. I hope you don't mind me answering his question on here, but I didn't see where he had posted the question on the board.
Making love is when you're in love with your partner and want to grow closer and show them that you care for them. It takes longer than other forms b/c it involves foreplay and afterplay. It's so beautiful and wonderful and it makes you feel like you're the only two in the world, and it can even make you cry! You can't make love to someone that you don't care for. Having sex is when you are interested in someone, care for them in some way, and afterwards still have a relationship with them. It means something to you, but you're not in love neccessarily. Fucking someone is when you don't care for them at all. You're just horny and don't care if they enjoy it, and you'll probably not even see htem afterwards.