Anonymous asked this question on 7/12/2000:

Men:

May we have your opinion on the difference between making love, having sex and you know...

thank you

Rhaven gave this response on 7/12/2000:

Greetings..

To distinguish between the three can be difficult..

To me, making love is when I will go that extra mile/step/page to cater to the desires of a significant other (I'm single at the moment, so stop laughing).. You will engage in foreplay, afterplay, repeat performances, etc.. You and your chosen will be so intune, nothing else will matter for that specific moment in time..

You know is when animals look at you and cover their eyes.. I does not matter where or when.. You have to have it right then and there.. Unless you are involved in a relationship, then there is little to no emotional involvement.. It is for pure pleasure..

Having sex is a little harder to determine.. I dare to say it is somewhere between making love and you know.. It depends on the persons involved.. If it is a couple in a relationship, it could be a "you scratch my back, I'll scratch your's" type of situation, a mercy thing (stop laughing, we've all been there), experimentation (I wonder if he/she can make my toes curl?), stress relief, etc..

But I digress..

However, since I am under the impression that one or more women are asking are interested in this question, how do you define making love, having sex, and you know..

Rhaven gave this follow-up answer on 7/12/2000:

If you have any further questions, then feel free to e-mail me at rhaven@delanet.com ..

And I am interested in your answer to your own question..

-Rhaven

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