Anonymous asked this question on 7/12/2000:

My girlfriend is very forgetful

she forgets to do things for me...once or twice she forgets that we had arranged to meet up until i remind her the last minute...

It used to hurt me before...but i am slowly getting round it.

How can I help her to not forget things.

DLM4u gave this response on 7/12/2000:

It may simply be in her personality to be this way. Maybe her brain is busy with other things. Ever seen the movie Flubber. Great example. Anyhow try these helpful hints:

1. Make post-it notes to remind her of important dates and stick on the refridgerator.

2. Write notes on her calander (If she doesnt have one, get her one.)

3. Get her a day planner

4. Make a warm phone call to gently remind her of tomorrows engagement

I am this way often, and this is what my husband has done to help me. It was all done in a non-threatening manner, and I appreciate his help in these matters. I hope this helps, -Dena