Anonymous asked this question on 7/12/2000:

how do i give the best in sex

and delay ejaculation as well

wractor gave this response on 7/12/2000:

To give the best in sex: 1. Communicate with your partner. Ask her what she likes, and give it to her. 2. Make it last with LOTS of foreplay. Give an oil-massage, LOTS of heavy petting, long slow deep kisses, etc. 3. Give lots of oral sex. 4. Don't forget the psychological element--tell her she's beautiful, that she makes love like a goddess, etc. and HOLD HER for a long time after sex.

To delay ejaculation: 1. Use multiple positions during the same lovemaking session. Start with missionary (man on top), switch to dog-style, then to woman-on-top, then finish with missionary. When you pull out of a woman to change positions, you're exposed to room-temperature air instead of a moist, tight 98-degree human body, and your own body relaxes a bit. 2. Slow your pelvic thrusts. The most natural thing in the world is to slide in and hammer away, but try it in 'phases', go low, speed up, slow down again, etc. 3. When you feel the 'buildup' a few moments before ejaculation, STOP, pull out, PINCH YOURSELF HARD behind the head of your penis, then start again. 4. There are several types of 'desensitizing creams' available for men at most adult shops, but use these as a last resort. You DO have a right to an orgasm yourself, y'know, and with these creams you might actually 'outlast' the girl, making her dry out and irritate the vaginal lining.

Have fun/be safe, KK