Anonymous asked this question on 7/12/2000:

how do i give the best in sex

and delay ejaculation as well

SeekTrueLove gave this response on 7/12/2000:

How do you get better in bed? Communicate with your partner and make sure that you are meeting her needs. Listen to what she likes and what she doesn't like. Everyone will have slightly different preferences about what is "being good in bed". So pay attention to what your current partners likes.

As far as delaying ejaculation, try to do a stop and start method. This can be perfected with practice (while masterbating). When self-gratifying yourself, stop stimulation when you are about to orgasm. Let yourself calm down a bit before stimulating yourself again. Do this several times, and when you are actually having intercourse, you will be able to control the timing of your orgasm. You will know when to stop, and also know when there is a point of no return. With practice, this will help give you a bit more control.

And of course, increase foreplay, cuddling, oral sex, massage, as a substitute for sex. Just because you've had your orgasm doesn't mean the loving has to stop.

Good luck.