dino890 asked this question on 7/11/2000:

i was going out with this guy for 3 month. We had sex wich i felt that i forced into. Suddenly he decides that he wants to go with my friend. He says that we can still have sex and going out. Does he still like me and how could i get him back since my friend doesn't like him.

LadyMara gave this response on 7/12/2000:

First off, why would you want him back if you feel that you were forced into having sex with him????? Secondly, if he bounces from one woman to another like that, why would you want him???? He doesn't sound like the catch of the season to me! Are you that desperate?? I'd say look for someone who is going to treat you with respect and WANT to be with you!!

He sounds like he wants to "have his cake and eat it too"!! He wants you for sex and her for a relationship.... is this what you want for yourself? I don't think he ever really liked you. Some men will look at a woman as a convenient place to "stick it"! Sounds crude, but reality is sometimes crude. I hope you do not value yourself so low as to want to be treated like this??? A man can only get away with it if you allow it!

Good luck, I will be praying for you!

love,

LadyMara