Anonymous asked this question on 7/11/2000:
Hi, I need some advice. Alright here goes me and my boyfriend (scott) have been dating for a year and a half but during this time I've spent alot of time with one of my bestfriends (joey). I've been into Joey a while and spent alot of time with him even with my bf there (okay there's a group of us 20 or so were all like bestfriends). So like 3 months ago Joey got in a accident on his sport bike(like a nija) and was in a coma for 3 weeks and couldn't talk for 3 after that now he's still in the hospital but is like so in love with me and I know he liked me before but I'm not sure if he's lonely or just in love with me for begning there through this life changing almost dealth sitution of his. Also with my current bf he'll be upset with us both and possibily turn my other friends that mean so much to me away from me and joey both. But I think I love Joey to and plan to move in with my sister this week I live with my bf now and start seeing joey . tell me what you think. please something I need some direction in this sitution.
moonrunner gave this response on 7/11/2000:
Dear Confused: I think that your best possible choice should be with Joey. I know he might be just loving you because you are sticking by him, but he has loved you before, don't forget, and vica versa. At the time you werre going with Scott, you were still close friends with Joey, and that was before the accident. You are definitely in love with Joey and I think that, although I feel sorry for Scott, that the relationship that you had with him didn't mean as much as your relationship with Joey. Unfortunately, there will some of your group who are going to rag on you, but most of it is just to say something....anything as long as it makes the guys in the group feel better. They will all take their fellow male's side so the girls HAVE to say:"Yeah, well she's always been a witch". Even if they really like you. I know that it's not fair, but you can't blame the girls for not wanting to be thought of in the same context as you. Nodisrespect meant. So, I gotta tell ya. You have to choose, and I guess you'll make the right choice. Please scroll down and rate my response. Thank you. moonrunner.
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