Anonymous asked this question on 7/11/2000:

Hi, I need some advice. Alright here goes me and my boyfriend (scott) have been dating for a year and a half but during this time I've spent alot of time with one of my bestfriends (joey). I've been into Joey a while and spent alot of time with him even with my bf there (okay there's a group of us 20 or so were all like bestfriends). So like 3 months ago Joey got in a accident on his sport bike(like a nija) and was in a coma for 3 weeks and couldn't talk for 3 after that now he's still in the hospital but is like so in love with me and I know he liked me before but I'm not sure if he's lonely or just in love with me for begning there through this life changing almost dealth sitution of his. Also with my current bf he'll be upset with us both and possibily turn my other friends that mean so much to me away from me and joey both. But I think I love Joey to and plan to move in with my sister this week I live with my bf now and start seeing joey . tell me what you think. please something I need some direction in this sitution.

wractor gave this response on 7/11/2000:

Seems like you've already made your plans, you just want someone to tell you you're not making a mistake.

Most of your question concentrates on Joey, not your boyfriend. So it seems like Joey's already replaced him, in your mind. It also seems your foremost concern is not having your boyfriend turn your other friends away from you. Well, if they're really your friends, they won't. Obviously your boyfriend's going to be upset (Who wouldn't?), but he'll have to get over it, and he will.

I'd talk to your boyfriend first, see how he thinks your relationship is going; you don't have to mention Joey. If he doesn't seem as in love with you as Joey, then you're probably making the right choice. But try to let him down as easy as possible. Best of luck, KK

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