deafchristian1988 asked this question on 7/7/2000:

Have you ever thought you got over a guy after several months, and then a song that reminds you of him made you cry again? He said he was going to work and got my new email from me -- and I never heard from him again...before that he asked about me and even went to the family reunion to talk to me one year. I have talked to him by phone on several occasions. I have this song called "I Know It" and it always reminds me of James....I started crying when that song was playing. Why did I have to do that? -- I realized that I can't get over him. Have you ever been this way before? Thanks for any answer you give me..I think I am still heartbroken over him -- I never did this for my ex-boyfriend in high school although I was sad when we broke up.

arkangel gave this response on 7/11/2000:

obviously you feel very strongly for this young man, but he does not for you. Go to a church of your denomination, and look there. There you will at least find someone close to god. seriously. arkangel