Anonymous asked this question on 7/11/2000:

Help, I'm a twenty-year old female and I've been with about 8 guys in my life time. All have different sizes and styles, The problem is no matter how good the sex is or how much I feel for the person or how good the person is orally or even how thick and long the person is I WILL NOT HAVE AN ORGASM. What's wrong could I possibly have some kind of sexual disfuncntion, I mean I'm supposed to be in my peak or at least experiencing all kinds of pleasures, what can I do??? I feel like I'm the only person who has not climaxed. HElP

MarieMc gave this response on 7/11/2000:

Find out if you can have an orgasm while you masterbate. If you can, there is nothing wrong. Your clitorus may be smaller than other womens and harder to get at, but it does require clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm, so find your clitorus and get your man to concentrate his energy on there. Very rarely does that happen from penile-vaginal intercourse, in most cases, women need oral stimulation, or stimulation with the fingers during intercourse. Try these things out, find the right area and go from there. Best to you!

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