Anonymous asked this question on 7/2/2000:

I use to date this guy, who is now just my friend. We stopped dating because his friends put a strain on our relationship. We go out together a lot and occasionally have sex. I see nothing wrong with what we have now. Other people have other opinions about it. He still acts like he wants to be with me, I can believe that. Should I leave the relation as JUST friends or pursue the relationship again?

tiffaney8 gave this response on 7/11/2000:

Anon, What you do is your own business. Don't worry about what anyone else thinks because you are your own person and as long as noone is getting hurt why not have fun? Life is to short-enjoy it while you can.

As far as your relationship goes how do you feel about him? Why did you all break up in the first place? And if your doing good with the way things are now why ruin-unless you love him and wan't to be with him.

You know personally it's a lot more fun to me to have a friend with excellent benefits then to be tied down with someone who treats ya like crap. I also have a friend with benefits and we have a ball together-and we tend to get a little sexual every now and then...lol...but hell it's fun.. good luck and don't worry so much. Just play it safely and take care of yourself.......

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