Anonymous asked this question on 7/11/2000:

Help, I'm a twenty-year old female and I've been with about 8 guys in my life time. All have different sizes and styles, The problem is no matter how good the sex is or how much I feel for the person or how good the person is orally or even how thick and long the person is I WILL NOT HAVE AN ORGASM. What's wrong could I possibly have some kind of sexual disfuncntion, I mean I'm supposed to be in my peak or at least experiencing all kinds of pleasures, what can I do??? I feel like I'm the only person who has not climaxed. HElP

behappy4u gave this response on 7/11/2000:

You need to get to know your body and its senastions so that you will relize what pleasure is. Most women dont reach thier top sexual peak until 30 and it keeps getting better after that. When I was 20 I was married and sex was ok and it felt good but I never had mind-blowing orgasms. I never mastrabated because it was not that important to me.When I turned 30 my hormones went wild, I wanted sex all the time and if I didnt get it I would please my self. Now I am 37 and sex is better than ever I have a boyfriend of 7 yrs and sex is one of my favorite hobbies. Im not saying you will have to wait that long to really come in to your own but you can speed it up by knowing what an orgasm is supposed to feel like. You need a vibrater or any type of toy as I call it and practice. Go slow,fast and keep it up until you feel all tingly inside and orgasm. You may not come the first couple times but I promise you it is a good way to relize what kind of sensations you are wanting to feel.Practie makes perfect.I hope this helps if you have any more questions feel free to ask

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